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So I have this little brother with autism

He's 19 now but he's still just a kid & he still needs help.

He lives with my mom, who is very unstable. She bounces place to place & rarely has her own place to live. My little brother doesn't have anyone else but her to rely on. His dad died long ago, & he doesn't know that side of his family. & Our mom's side of the family wants nothing to do with her.. so she has nobody in her family either. Therefore, my brother has no one else but my mom.

My mom has been on drugs for a long time. Sometimes she's better, sometimes she's not. Months ago, she disappeared without a word or warning. Her apartment got locked due to non-payment, & she was just gone 🤷 nobody knew where she was... not even my little brother who my mom's supposed to be there for.
It took her daaays before she reappeared & took him with her. Still don't know where she went though.

My little brother just called me this morning for the first time ever since all that happened. He didn't sound concerned, he was chilling, watching tv at the moment. So we just talked about how he's doing & what he's been doing for fun, how he's been making money (he always helps people & makes money for it.. idk how lmao).

It makes me happy he sounds okay & that he has a phone again to call me. But I'm still disappointed in my mom 😒 like you're all that kid has, why do you have to make him live like this? 😔
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that1funnyblonde · 36-40, F Best Comment
That seriously warmed my heart and gave me the warm fuzzies!!!! I can kinda relate. My little brothers not Autistic but he has some learning disabilities. I finally talked our Mom into giving me guardianship of him when he was 16 and had already been living with me for awhile so I could get him back into school. He graduated high school (Im sure in spite of me and not because of me 🤣) and while hes had some rough times, hes doing great with a family of his own now. Im super proud of him!
ChiefJustWalks · 26-30
@that1funnyblonde damn that's awesome 😌 that makes me so happy that he turned out to have a good life 🙏 you're an amazing person for helping him with that however you could 🥺

I used to always wonder how my brothers life would turn out. Like if he'd be functional enough to find love & maintain a family of his own someday. He has such a loving heart & I'd hate for him to miss out on that. I guess I still hope to see it someday
ChiefJustWalks · 26-30
@that1funnyblonde gave you BC but thats for me being proud of your brother too 🖤🙏
that1funnyblonde · 36-40, F
@ChiefJustWalks Awww...thank you!!! 🤗 Just being available to have a little conversation with your brother is a big deal and all we can do is give whatever we can, when we can. Obviously were always going to hold onto those hopes and dreams for them no matter what!