I have often heard that daughter in law should be like this and like that

Women should have patience because they are women and should tolerate alot of things. I hate to be born as women actually. Women should suffer alot of bullshits for no reason. I mean the waste monthly period, seriously, if we are going to give birth once or twice in our life then why women should suffer monthly pain without any outcome. If I would be male then I would surely join army and kill many people's. Sometimes I feel I am prisoner in the female body with the thinking and attitude of male. Even that priest told that I should have born as male and the priest of my husband told that he should have born as female.

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Sepia · 36-40, F

It is not true that we, women are to tolerate anything. We have proper values to follow if you disobey you know the consequences. Monthly pain is according to our biological design.. Our existence is unique that even law somehow favored us though there are some flaws in it but our being went through a better a craftsmanship of better social values, we are gatherers, we are nurturing individuals, home makers.. and to admit that among sexes it is us who are the most trusted stranger a kid can meet.

I doubt if you have been questioning your sexuality even before marriage…or was it the stress you had after. At such age you must abandon your comfort zone, you are no longer the pampered daughter of your parents… you are still a daughter but a wife to a man, a daughter to his parents, a niece to his aunts…which is to continue the generations of nurturing and to raise better men… If your aren’t leaving your parent’s home at your age.. that doesn’t seem to be appropriate.

Your mother will never be a mother to you if she kept on staying in her parent’s home. You existed by her and your dad. You were raised by them. Soon to be you will raised your own.