I have often heard that daughter in law should be like this and like that

Women should have patience because they are women and should tolerate alot of things. I hate to be born as women actually. Women should suffer alot of bullshits for no reason. I mean the waste monthly period, seriously, if we are going to give birth once or twice in our life then why women should suffer monthly pain without any outcome. If I would be male then I would surely join army and kill many people's. Sometimes I feel I am prisoner in the female body with the thinking and attitude of male. Even that priest told that I should have born as male and the priest of my husband told that he should have born as female.