How would you feel or how would you take this?

If they meant exactly what they said I'm not sure what's wrong with it.
1. Not holding grudges is good.
2. To learn from your mistakes or even other people's mistakes is good.
3. Not interfering in other people's lives as some kind of control freak is good.
What have I misunderstood?

That's pretty much how I live my life.

Live and let live.

Live, Learn, Grow.

I don't allow other people's "learning curve" to define them. The one thing we all have in common is that we are imperfect. Although some people seek perfection in themself and others it's futile. You have to have grace and humility in life. If not, it will steal your joy.

@Firestarter Are you upset that the person appears to be dismissive of you? Would it give you comfort if the person became hysterical over the relationship instead of walking away from it?

As a blend of red flags. More severe in certain conversations with certain people about certain subjects.

I heard that before.
They turned out to be liars.

I kind of agree

I’d respect that. On its face it’s a logical way to be.