My father in law died last February 2022, he first got diagnosed in March 21, they said he will be fine, by June '21 he was in Chemo, they kept telling him that it was nothing to worry about, he was getting progressively worse, they then did every scan etc and cleared him as being ok to have this major and life altering operation, after which he was never the same again, he actually died after the operation and they "saved" him, but he just lived through hell for the next 5 months until his demise
My point, several times by several people he was told it was OK or something and nothing.. I feel like these people don't have a clue