Can you really love 2 people at the same time?

Can you love your wife & mistress / girlfriend
Will this work long term, or do you Have to eventually choose one to be with?
Will it cause heartbreak
Let me know what you think.

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Dusty101 · F

Personally I thought I was in love with two people but I was just infatuated with them. I'm sure and heard that people can. I don't think that sort of love was put in my data base as I've never been in love. I've never experienced feelings other people describe. But I have a bloody genuine care and adoration for my husband. And it works. But I'm not in love.

RubySoo · 56-60, F

@Dusty101 i agree 100%
I feel the same way about my husband.
But.....ive certainly felt infatuated towards other men. I havent acted on it, but clearly, that is the feeling missing in my marriage. Its been an issue for me at times.....but not any more. Im content with my lot these days.