Little shifts in my understanding of my family

My dad doesn’t talk about much. He doesn’t share many stories of his life or our families early life. I feel like I’ve only heard him really open up maybe 10 times. Today being #10. He opened up about our families financial struggles and how they raised my sister who was handicapped from birth, and how time intensive that was, to how they lost the house and cars. I didn’t know it was going on when I was a kid. It does make me understand my choices with money and the choices I made to distance myself from them because their choices continue to be detrimental to them and others. It’s just nice to have some more of the story. All this because my brother shared in the group text how his car got repossessed.