I went to a family reunion a couple of weeks ago.. and a first cousin (male)and a second cousin (female) both have called me everyday since? Do you

Pay then back the money you owe...🤣

Don’t answer the phone. You make the rules. It’s nice to keep in touch with family, and perhaps they were impressed with you, and want to stay in touch. Only problem is their definition of “stay in touch” is different from yours, so you set your own boundaries. Let it go to VM, and respond 24-hours later, then you can respond 48-hours later, etc; until you reach a time that’s best for you. This is the kinder gentler way to wean people off you. Of course, you may want nothing to do with them at all, and just ignore them. That’s one extreme, but really it’s up to you to set your boundaries.

Yeah it would get tiring. Maybe they are lonely, tell them you are busy if you don’t feel like talking so much. I would start feeling smothered.

Sounds like a bit much....surely you feel it is. If their "newfound fervor" doesn't subside soon you might have to tell them to ease off a bit. (Hard to believe they haven't picked up on the fact that you are uncomfortable with it already)

maybe they are worried about you

I find it extremely strange. Just give them a cookie and send them on their way 😛😀

I’d just not bother answering the phone.

I like them both but I don’t have that kind of time.