I feel so horrible......

Went to see my mum today and helped her out cleaning and stuff and I asked her if she wanted to come over to mine tomorrow to have some cake and stuff as it's gonna be my birthday and she said only if your boyfriend will pick me up and take me....
Maybe I'm over reacting but I live 15 minutes away from my mum I always walk there even though we have a car my daughters walk there too. One is 3 the other nearly 2.
Should I be pissed of or am I over thinking this?
I can't believe my mum would say something like this

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InHeaven · F

No. Its a minor thing. When our parents die we often regret and wish that we did what they asked us not once but 100 times with no problem especially if its only 15 minutes, not 15 hours and will cost basically nothing

SW-User

@InHeaven Well put

MiraRoss · 31-35, F

@InHeaven all my life my mum has pushed me aside if anything she will regret not spending the time with me.... No?

InHeaven · F

@MiraRoss its better to forgive her, she was obviously wrong

MiraRoss · 31-35, F

@InHeaven it's hard to with what I've been through it should have never happened she turned her back and walked away. She is my mum and I will always look after her when she really needs it but forgiveness is earned even if it involves family

InHeaven · F

@MiraRoss she may not know how to earn it so you are expecting from her what she does not have and might never give you. Just forget it and move passed that. She might also have been through something that lead her to be this way. Not everyone has the proper maternal instinct to be there for their kids. People are damaged

MiraRoss · 31-35, F

@InHeaven apparently I ruined her life that's why she pushed me aside then she had two more kids and cared more for them than anyone else and my big brother,who doesn't know who his dad is yet I do and my mum won't tell him.it be nice to be appreciated for what I've done for her she doesn't even have manners