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Is it possible that a 55 year old man would develop fatherly feelings toward me and like me like his daughter?

My father never took care of me and I always found men in my environment (teachers, professor etc.) and made them my role model and father figure. I know, some of the teachers were then also more protective of me but we of course never met outside of school.

If I could, I'd wish not to have a boyfriend but to find someone, who'd be like a father to me, explain me things, encourage me, take responsibility, be stronger in all aspects...

Is it possible that a 55 year old man who's not my family, would develop such strong fatherly feelings toward me and like me like his daughter?

Like my teachers did but much stronger, long-term and also outside of school and who'd meet with me on regular basis and we'd go climbing together and he'd secure me. Someone like Doc and Marty McFly in Back to the future. Or in karateKid. Someone I would adore and look up to and he'd be happy that I do. Who'd encourage me if I'm afraid to do something and afterwards be really proud on me.

If yes, how to find such person?
Coppercoil · M
Yes.. there are many good men here that have taken younger ones and formed that kind of relationship with younger women. Problem is most will only pretend and then try and get sexual things..

but for example. I don't have a daughter.. but always wanted one, so I very much recognize that unfulfilled part of me that wants to nurture and protect younger women I care for.. and I know I'm a good guy.. I don't care who says I'm not.. that's just them being cynical it hateful.

So how do you find a father figure? that is tough. You will have to just make a lot of friends and get rid of the ones who try and get sex from you. The good ones will stay when there is no sex offered or needed. Don't expect angels though.. just demand respect to your wishes.. for all straight guys find young women attractive so flirting will usually happen to some degree on the net. Irl.. probably not as much.

It's a challenge to get what you want. My advice is watch people here and their relationships, other young women and see for yourself which guys are good to them and not ever sexual in nature.. what guys have earned the trust of many women here. Plus there are compatibility issues to deal with as well.. personality compatibility matters as much in this situation as any.

As for real life, I can't say.. that's a whole different situation to have to navigate.

Beat of luck to you!
A mentor? Sure. But you cant go around asking men to be your dad.
REMsleep · 41-45, F
Straight men are naturally attracted to women and even a man of very good intentions will probably eventually become somewhat interested in sexual things with any nice unrelated girl that wants to spend time with him often and admires him and wants a long term communication.
Thats if he is a good guy. 99% will say ans do anything to have sex.
The odds of finding this type pf relationship is slim.

 
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