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For those with siblings.

My brother feels he is always in my shadow, regardless of what he does.
How do you deal with that?
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Quickquestion · 31-35, M
@Vivaci yep
Give him some responsibility @Quickquestion
Quickquestion · 31-35, M
@Vivaci this is a strategy we applied. Problem there is that he gets too fkd up and I have to take over for the day. I do as good as him or better, and now it's a whole issue. While I was just trying to cover for him. It's some deep illogical issue that I just can't figure out. I can't willingly do a bad job...
I get ya...

Next time don’t take over even if he f*cks up. Just let him keep on trying and let him be accountable for it.

When he realizes that you are not helping him he will like it in the beginning. Help him out once in a while. @Quickquestion