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Could you give up on a loved one?

I have a sister that lives off the grid and she doesn't keep in touch with any of her siblings and their are 6 of us. But she would usually call me at least every 2 years. But I haven't heard from her in 3 years now. Only me and my brother are the only ones that care. I try talking to my sisters about it because I am concerned, and they just take a nonchalant attitude about it saying "You know how she is" and "she doesn't want to be found". I just don't get how someone could don't care about their own blood like that.
I washed my hands of my family in 1984. No regrets.
Yes. I quit contacting one of my sisters because the relationship was one sided. And I didn't look back. I don't even miss her. She's trouble.
I'd be concerned if she was consistent before that.
SW-User
I never knew my dad's entire family because his mum was like your sister. She did everything she could to push everyone away. We had to give up on her, because it was what she wanted.
Jenny1234 · 51-55, F
I’d be quite concerned about her
You don’t choose your relatives, alas. I had to step back from a very destructive family member for my own well-being. She’s stolen from us and proven on many occasions her untrustworthiness. One of our siblings no longer speaks to her.
Stopmakingsense · 56-60, F
I have no family willing to keep in touch. They're truly that much better.
ScarletWitch · 26-30, F
You guys did something to have her never come back again. Js
LordShadowfire · 100+, M
Could and have. I will say no more on the subject.
Mrsbetweenfatandfit · 26-30, F
It’s sounds more like there’s not anything to be done about an adult who prefers to be without them so to worry would be wasted energy. Hope everyone is safe at least.

 
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