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Why is he over stepping his boundaries?

Ok, so my brother is 26 and his new wife is also 26. My brother works full time, his wife doesn't at all. His wife is a bit slow, but she could work if she wanted to. Anyways, her father is the real problem, he cussed my brother out because he claims he should be encouraging his daughter to get her GED, and to stop wasting her time doing nothing. I agree that his daughter does need to stay focus with school or getting a job, but he has no right to get mad with my brother because his daughter is goofing off. She spends her time just talking on the phone or going over friends has doing nothing, while my brother is working hard.
QuixoticSoul · 41-45, M
Her dad is free to communicate his wishes/advice, and as adults they are free to ignore them. Sounds like he’s right though.
He married her. Surely he knew what he was signing up for. LOL
Oster1 · M
I’m afraid your brother has made a terrible mistake. She is going to try to get pregnant, ASAP. DIL is projecting his own failure. This female is 26!
Firegod74 · 46-50, M
Maybe the dad has tried and failed so many times that he is hoping the husband can have an impact.
I get the feeling that's not how he came across.@Firegod74
BalmyNites · F
Your brother has backed a lazy horse!
Oster1 · M
@BalmyNites So sad too. You can imagine.
DunningKruger · 61-69, M
Not your circus, not your monkeys.
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I think he just wants to feel important so he interferes.
dontbekoi · 36-40, F
Who is over stepping their boundaries? 🤔
dontbekoi · 36-40, F
@ToSirwithLove Sounds like you are protecting your brother and your brother's father in law is protecting his daughter. Both of you should mind your own business and allow people to make their own mistakes. How do you expect people to learn and grow if you pick up the slack for them? I get that you obviously love him but don't make an idiot out of him. He needs to learn how to be a man and he won't if he always has you fighting his battles.

I'm sorry if this is not what you want to hear 😔
I agree with this. @dontbekoi
dontbekoi · 36-40, F
@Spoiledbrat I appreciate that ~ Thank you 🤗
He married her. It's his problem.
Justenjoyit · 61-69, M
Poor guy, probably wake up when it's too late.

 
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