Everytime i see a new post about someone from high school having a baby or getting married, my heart starts to sink.

Maybe if I were 25 I wouldn't care, but i' 33....anyone my age thats single that have that same feeling? No one wants to admit it, but cmon

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Doomflower · 41-45, M

I am in my late 30s and I still go, "oh no they are so young!!" When someone in their 30s decides to breed. "Those poor kids had their whole lives ahead of them"

DeluxedEdition · 26-30, F

@Doomflower fr though

MntoNc · 36-40, M

@Doomflower 30s is actually considered the older side of things, if youre having your first child particularly

DeluxedEdition · 26-30, F

@MntoNc in america, because were always in a rush to go nowhere. that's early in many other 1st world countries

MntoNc · 36-40, M

@DeluxedEdition eh, idk about that. Everyone i went to high school with seems to have kids or be married.

DeluxedEdition · 26-30, F

@MntoNc same, and i am one of those people and certainly regret it. i wish i had waited to have kids so i would be more stable and would be able to be a family unit. instead i am a single mom with two kids, who is 24, divorced, working five days a week going to school full time hoping for better days when i will be able to spend more time with my children. 😔 i think about it and how selfish i was all the time...

it's not all glitters and rainbows. kids are wonderful and so is love, but so is patience and divine timing

MntoNc · 36-40, M

@DeluxedEdition I know, and on the other hand im 33, going on 34 in January, and I'm starting to think I'm too old now lol. I know men aren't really looked at for having a biological clock, ht I don't want to be old when my child is in high school

Doomflower · 41-45, M

@MntoNc I was kind of joking because to me, having kids sounds like worse than a death sentence