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Everytime i see a new post about someone from high school having a baby or getting married, my heart starts to sink.

Maybe if I were 25 I wouldn't care, but i' 33....anyone my age thats single that have that same feeling? No one wants to admit it, but cmon
Doomflower · 36-40, M
I am in my late 30s and I still go, "oh no they are so young!!" When someone in their 30s decides to breed. "Those poor kids had their whole lives ahead of them"
DeluxedEdition · 26-30, F
@MntoNc same, and i am one of those people and certainly regret it. i wish i had waited to have kids so i would be more stable and would be able to be a family unit. instead i am a single mom with two kids, who is 24, divorced, working five days a week going to school full time hoping for better days when i will be able to spend more time with my children. 😔 i think about it and how selfish i was all the time...

it's not all glitters and rainbows. kids are wonderful and so is love, but so is patience and divine timing
MntoNc · 31-35, M
@DeluxedEdition I know, and on the other hand im 33, going on 34 in January, and I'm starting to think I'm too old now lol. I know men aren't really looked at for having a biological clock, ht I don't want to be old when my child is in high school
Doomflower · 36-40, M
@MntoNc I was kind of joking because to me, having kids sounds like worse than a death sentence
butterfly1013 · 26-30, F
I get it! Well, I'm not in my 30's yet, but I have no kids of my own and the one chance I had to have a kid it ended in miscarriage. I am only 26, but time has been passing by. However though, I think that maybe we're not always as prepared as we think. The Universe knows what it's doing and in due time, it will happen for you. Remember it's happening for you, not to you.
Yes, it feels more and more like I'm the last one who never had a relationship that lasted more than a few months.
MntoNc · 31-35, M
@NerdyPotato this is one of those misery loves company moments
Maybe you are trying too hard & over worrying try to relax & view dating with less tension and anxiety. If you act like its a top priority you might be sending the wrong signals to woman who might think your too keen & thats not always a good vibe. Your still young enjoy meeting & dating diffent people.change your mindset. You might be surprised it could make a difference. You look nice so no reason not to find someone.
MntoNc · 31-35, M
@Cutiepi23 33 ain't young! Maybe life in general is somewhat young, but when it comes to marriage and say its towards the older side
@MntoNc If you keep thinking negative thats what you will get more of. Read law of attraction. Many older men father children & people live longer. My friend fathered two children athe first aged 55 second 56 both are at school doing well...people live longer now also. Not everything is a negative I think you need to relax & enjoy life or you will never be happy be grateful & be happy alone till you meet the right woman. Believe that & it can happen. Negativity just leads to unhappiness & more negative thoughts. Try practicing gratitude for what you already have. Your alive & hopefully well. No one knows the future.
DeluxedEdition · 26-30, F
lol lots of men your age feel this way
DeluxedEdition · 26-30, F
i have two 😛@quitwhendone
DeluxedEdition · 26-30, F
@quitwhendone 2, and 7 🥰

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