What do you do if someone hurts your feelings?
Whenever I get my feelings hurt I end up keeping it to myself. Should I tell the person or should I try to avoid conflict by not telling them?
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riseofthemachine · 41-45, M
You have 2 valid points in the question/answer you asked .
When someone hurts the resentment can be like a vice scripts inside your mind , meaning you can hold onto it to hurt yourself more .
Letting go of it( very hard tho ) is the only answer cause when I hold onto it your the one that gets sick .
I wouldn't confront them . You'd get a wrong answer off them .
I confronted a person once over a situation that was very toxic . She denied it and I got a nervous breakdown for a year and half over it .
NEVER CONFRONT THEM IF THERE SICK .
See there hurting . Did you ever hear the same " Hurt people hurt "
That's your answer .
For your own peace of mind .
When someone hurts the resentment can be like a vice scripts inside your mind , meaning you can hold onto it to hurt yourself more .
Letting go of it( very hard tho ) is the only answer cause when I hold onto it your the one that gets sick .
I wouldn't confront them . You'd get a wrong answer off them .
I confronted a person once over a situation that was very toxic . She denied it and I got a nervous breakdown for a year and half over it .
NEVER CONFRONT THEM IF THERE SICK .
See there hurting . Did you ever hear the same " Hurt people hurt "
That's your answer .
For your own peace of mind .