What do you do if someone hurts your feelings?
Whenever I get my feelings hurt I end up keeping it to myself. Should I tell the person or should I try to avoid conflict by not telling them?
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Umile · 41-45, F
Depends on you.
I go three ways.
Avoid, ignore or address.
Avoiding is best. Hear no evil, see no evil.
Ignore. Hurts and doesn't get anything done.
Address. Deals with it. Straight. The thing is, you have to be strong enough to deal with the consequences.
And if they're bright enough to come to a compromise, y'all can set boundaries and it's smooth sailing from there.
I go three ways.
Avoid, ignore or address.
Avoiding is best. Hear no evil, see no evil.
Ignore. Hurts and doesn't get anything done.
Address. Deals with it. Straight. The thing is, you have to be strong enough to deal with the consequences.
And if they're bright enough to come to a compromise, y'all can set boundaries and it's smooth sailing from there.