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I Am Stronger Because of All I've Been Through

This divorce has already taught me quite a bit. I'm seeing my ex through different eyes now. He and I have been living more like roommates and friends for years anyway...but...he's a completely different person now. He's become more passive-aggressive and selfish. I don't understand it. He has a girlfriend and plans out so much time for them, and I hurt for my kids. This weekend, he and she are going away today until Saturday for the U2 concert. He's doing stuff with her he never did with me.

But, I'm also seeing what I want and what I don't want in a man and companion. This has made me stronger and I feel my old self coming back. In the end, I know this will bring some awesome new beginnings!
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Ramon67 · 61-69, M
I'm glad to know that although divorced . You are still a parent that put her kids needs before your own . Most couples once divorced will become selfish and only cater to their own needs .
TenderHeart · 46-50, F
@Nomar67: Thus is with my ex LOL I'll always put my kids first.
Ramon67 · 61-69, M
@TenderHeart: my ex did the same thing . I decided after the divorce that my kids needs were first and my could wait .