Females what would make u drop a man and then take him bck in seconds?

Nothing. I wouldn't leave unless I didn't want to be with him.

Insecurity, and an undecided mind.

Well if he waved chocolate in my face I might get mesmerized and lose my wits

It sounds like something someone does when they don't have their mind made up.

I have left for a reason so there would be no going back

Idiocy? A flippant attitude?