So what I don’t get is this paradox for example

Trans youth ( and I mean carefully vetted gender dysphoric youth teenagers maybe not young children) so there isn’t a risk of detransition and regretting going on hormone replacement therapy with help from their parents or guardians. I am more of a case by case basis and what is best for one particular young person and wait and see approach than this push to think a little gender non conformity always means transgender and rushing youth and children down the medical transition route. Trans youth are not seen as capable to make choices about their medical care with their parents and guardians input of course but we have underage marriage legal in most states. Tell me how that makes sense.