List of missing items of late (living hell with psychopath narcissist)

2 iconic London blurring skin tint (€36 each)
Abbot lyon pearl drop necklace, never previously worn (€100 or more, I can't remember)
Kate spade bee earring possibly were €50, but I still have 1
Guess body lotion
Rituals deodorant €10
Several packs of toothpaste, deodorants and shampoo etc
2 full bottles of vodka
Many liters of milk
Missing food from the fridge that wasn't eaten
Many socks new, where 1 out of each pack gone
Bus cards, wallets, keys missing

List if items broken or destroyed
Hole in the back of my son's Nike tracksuit trousers, bleach marks on bath towels, rips in others,
Smashed dipping bowls inside cupboard
Smashed ceramic roasting dishes, mugs that suddenly leak, broken cups in cupboards
Leaking drinks in fridge that were not leaking before bedtime
Pots that have been destroyed by some reason (scratches, scraped)
Marks on wooden flooring, tiles, bathroom smashed up
Clothes missing, holes in clothes that haven't been worn in ages, passports. Missing and found..

This is only the tip of the iceberg

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YMITheWayIM · 46-50, M

That's some inventory for sure.

DystopianDivalry

My mom used to do weird shit too but now she's too old to do these things

Degbeme · 70-79, M

You think it might be your ex?

Sequoia51 · 70-79, M

What happened?

Ontheroad · M

I can't imagine... that would drive me insane. How do you deal with it without completely going off the rails?

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Ontheroad · M

@OogieBoogie I simply can't imagine having to deal with it... actually, I wouldn't, but as I say that, I know every situation is different.

OogieBoogie · F

@Ontheroad ah, the thing is, the type of person that'd do this, is also the type of person to make sure that their victim is in a position where they have lost any and all resources to leave.

Its a full hostage situation.
Its about total control.
Not just your life, but your mind and spirit too.

Its not an exaggeration to say that some victims take their own life over it.

Its just.... beyond awful.
It can consume you.
Its never ending.

You cant make plans
You cant do anything
You can't create....make, or even have a single easy day, coz they make everything become a problem you have to solve.

Simple things like....getting dressed, making dinner, going to get groceries....all become hurdles you have to jump.

You spend hundreds of useless hours just looking for stuff coz you dont know if its just been moved, hidden or thrown out.

Its silent insanity😞

Ontheroad · M

@OogieBoogie I know, or should I say I've seen it happen to others, and I simply can't imagine being in that situation or imagine being the person who does this to another.

This is pure evil... a very sick person. Also, sounds as if you have lived it.

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