if you think some people have a 'private' perception of you which is not true, not right
what can you do? again, i do get paranoid at times, but one thing i suspect, but have no proof about, is that certain people have 'private perceptions' of me that are not true, not right and not real, that they keep to themselves, that they maybe have a laugh about behind closed doors? that they keep private, ie- they're not coming out and directly telling me what their perceptions of me are....but it's something they're keeping private and getting off on behind closed doors?
and i get frustrated and annoyed about this sometimes, as i said, i have no proof people do think things privately about me which aren't true...just suspect it....and my feelings are; i want to 'prize' that private 'false' perception out of them, so i can challenge them directly on it, put them right on what the truth is...and have a go at them for having a private false perception of me in the first place??
what do you think?
and i get frustrated and annoyed about this sometimes, as i said, i have no proof people do think things privately about me which aren't true...just suspect it....and my feelings are; i want to 'prize' that private 'false' perception out of them, so i can challenge them directly on it, put them right on what the truth is...and have a go at them for having a private false perception of me in the first place??
what do you think?
46-50, M