If you’re hugging a guy friend and you notice that he may be getting an erection and you can tell he’s nervous about it. What are your thoughts??

Are you offended ??

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DancingStarGoddess ·

Not offended, i'd just back off. Wouldn't embarrass him about it either. He's probably embarrassed enough about it as it is.

But i'd refrain from hugging them from then on.🤷🏿 i used to date a couple guys who had that problem when i hugged them

DragonFruit · 70-79, M

I wouldn't feel offended by that at all....I'm attracted to men, and my first time started with a friend getting naked and kissing me (which got me aroused).
If I noticed my friend's erection, I'd probably hug him afain and say something to him

Nunki · 31-35, F

No but I might not hug them again. It’d be awkward

SumKindaMunster · 56-60, M

I think, "Wow that's creepy and weird...who asks questions like that?"

And then I see the user account....

PepsiColaP

I would be disgusted ngl

Telcontar

@PepsiColaP
This happened this morning and it was involuntary.. she noticed and gave me a little smile though she could see that I was trying to turn away.. but she gave me two more hugs.. and has been very sweet to me.. all the same .
She has kind of a thing for me apparently and I happen think she’s pretty amazing.
I wasn’t thinking about her in a particular way. It just happened and I was embarrassed.. but I’m glad she wasn’t put off..

PepsiColaP

@Telcontar probably BCS she is attracted to you . But if I wasn't attracted to someone and they got an erection I would be weirded out ngl. I get that they are involuntary but it still feels invasive to feel that. Two things can be true

Telcontar

@PepsiColaP
I understand what you’re saying. Fortunately this isn’t something that happens often

OlderSometimesWiser · F

Is that a corn dog in your pocket or are you just happy to see me?

Finchy · 41-45, M

As a gay ho my thoughts are a lot different than others here lol

BlueVeins · 26-30

No, erections are involuntary and often aren't even sexual at all.

Telcontar

@BlueVeins exactly.. I had no sexual thoughts in my mind whatsoever

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