I often have women go out of their way to comment on my hair and each time it makes me feel all precious as get out. I’ve gotten used to simply accepting the comment and sincerely thanking them for it.

What I can’t accept just yet is compliments on what they perceive as strengths in me. Never once have I questioned their genuineness because each time it’s come from someone who I know loves me and knows some of the journey I’ve had. But it’s still hard to see myself as so many women in my life do. I’ll get there though.

I accept every compliment graciously. They are too rare to ignore!

Ulterior motives? If I give a compliment it is because it makes me feel good to be accentuating the positive.

And there's never anything wrong with trying to be nice. We need more of that.

Girl power, right? When someone gives me a compliment, I beam with gratitude. I'd totally do the same for another woman - spreading the love and appreciation!

For me,

I say what I mean. If I think she has a lovely dress. I'm going to tell her I love her taste in clothing

What kind of motive would they have, like what could they think they're going to get from you? If there was something, I'd also start to wonder. But since I have little power at work, I happily take compliments when given :)

I usually think that they don't mean it and they're just saying it to be nice.

It's a great compliment

When it starts being every time I see them, I'd be suspicious 🤔😁🤣

Not a "lady but don't look a gift horse in the mouth.....Ulterior motives,pfft,if someone says I',m looking good....I take the money and run and run😅

Hooty, tells many girls they look beautiful!