if you thought people did not like you in general, would it bother you

this is what i sometimes think, that people don't like me or see me in a bad light....but to be honest i don't care and have my close circle of support which i stick too, being my elderly parents.

but, if you also thought that, would it bother you? if people did not like you?

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being · 36-40, F

Yes it did bother me a great deal and so I did a lot of work to change it, because in the end of the day it is indeed more in our head than in others'. If you change the belief within you, it'll be a lot easier... This requires a wide variety of things to dig, reflect, see under a different light, old stories, forgotten details..

If you could be 1/3rd the same passionate as you are about educating yourself in philosophy, to do better in relationships, you'd definitely see things change.
But it does take time and dedication, but indeed it's possible for it to change. And even after a lot of work there're still going to be bad days and periods, because everyone have them.
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