✨Just something I’ve learned with my recent situations✨

“often when we say we don’t know what to do, we don’t really mean that.

What we mean is “I don’t know how to assure the outcome. I don’t know how to make sure they won’t be mad at me. I don’t know how to set a boundary in a way that they’ll like it. I don’t know how to get all the positives from both of these options with none of the negatives. “

We can’t control the outcome. The only thing you can control are the values in which you’re acting. You might need to accept that you can’t control how other people feel about your actions, and you can’t control how everything turns out. “