I believe a really important thing to know

And that all of us should apply to our everyday life in my opinion, is that, if you're not willing to listen to someone, or all the feedback you're gonna provide is either negative or with the aim of brushing them off, then it's okay, you're within your right not to do so, just understand, you cannot ask people in that situation to act like they're all fine and nothing's aggravating them.

If you're not gonna offer your support to someone in a distressful situation, then please don't treat them like their problems are insignificant and that they should act like nothing happens or perhaps even ask favors from them when they're in that state. At leazt give them space and understanding if it's not within you to give them support.