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newjaninev2 · 56-60, F
Very few (and I mean [i]very[/i] few) men know how to flirt.
Flirting is attention without intention.
Many men are so eager to assess the chances of fulfilling their intentions that they simply come across as crass.
Flirting is attention without intention.
Many men are so eager to assess the chances of fulfilling their intentions that they simply come across as crass.
Thunderyflame · 26-30, M
@newjaninev2 well whats an example of how to flirt vs not how to flirt ?
newjaninev2 · 56-60, F
@Thunderyflame Oh, it’s such a subtle thing that examples are difficult to express.
Somebody sent me flowers at my workplace recently. I was taking them down the hallway to put them in water. A man was walking the other way and as he approached I said “Look at these... aren’t they lovely!” and just as he passed me he quietly said “How could I possibly tell?”
Now [i]that[/i] is style! [i]That[/i] is flirting. Non-threatening, and bolstering my self-image.
Somebody sent me flowers at my workplace recently. I was taking them down the hallway to put them in water. A man was walking the other way and as he approached I said “Look at these... aren’t they lovely!” and just as he passed me he quietly said “How could I possibly tell?”
Now [i]that[/i] is style! [i]That[/i] is flirting. Non-threatening, and bolstering my self-image.
Thunderyflame · 26-30, M
@newjaninev2 wait but they guy who said how could I possibly tell wasnt the one who gave you the flowers right ?
newjaninev2 · 56-60, F
@Thunderyflame That’s right. He had nothing to gain, and yet took the time to lift my day. Very attractive behaviour!
Thunderyflame · 26-30, M
@newjaninev2lol i think i see what you mean he wasnt to direct ?