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Miram · 31-35, F
@Luvbuttz I stopped speaking to two of my siblings for years, not because it's grudge but because the wounds they left, took long time to heal.
One I helped elope from a very conservative context, away from my parents. I helped her escape with her bf, she then dumped him and went back to an arranged marriage and told the people involved I kidnapped her.
The other used to beat me up severely when asked to do so by my father.
So context is everything really. I became very violent person due to my upbringing, keeping distance was wise until I learnt to be in control of my anger.
We now do talk.
One I helped elope from a very conservative context, away from my parents. I helped her escape with her bf, she then dumped him and went back to an arranged marriage and told the people involved I kidnapped her.
The other used to beat me up severely when asked to do so by my father.
So context is everything really. I became very violent person due to my upbringing, keeping distance was wise until I learnt to be in control of my anger.
We now do talk.