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dudutsss · 26-30, M
The forgiving type! Holding a grudge is like drinking a glass of water with poison: It kills.
dudutsss · 26-30, M
@Luvbuttz Yeah, yeah. Forgiveness means setting yourself free: Free from the pain, the hurt, the lies, the grudge, and the wounds.
Miram · 31-35, F
That depends, some things are grudge worthy.
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DreamyCrush · F
@Luvbuttz Been there...
Miram · 31-35, F
@Luvbuttz I stopped speaking to two of my siblings for years, not because it's grudge but because the wounds they left, took long time to heal.
One I helped elope from a very conservative context, away from my parents. I helped her escape with her bf, she then dumped him and went back to an arranged marriage and told the people involved I kidnapped her.
The other used to beat me up severely when asked to do so by my father.
So context is everything really. I became very violent person due to my upbringing, keeping distance was wise until I learnt to be in control of my anger.
We now do talk.
One I helped elope from a very conservative context, away from my parents. I helped her escape with her bf, she then dumped him and went back to an arranged marriage and told the people involved I kidnapped her.
The other used to beat me up severely when asked to do so by my father.
So context is everything really. I became very violent person due to my upbringing, keeping distance was wise until I learnt to be in control of my anger.
We now do talk.
SW-User
I'm more forgiving now that I'm older. I was terrible when younger, a real grudge holder!!
Luvbuttz · M
@SW-User you know... for some its reverse... some people get grouchy with age..
You did good tho..👍️
You did good tho..👍️
SW-User
@Luvbuttz Thank you...I'm very grumpy about lots of things but try not to hold the grudges!!
Luvbuttz · M
@SW-User it can eat you up!
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peskyone · F
nah, no one is worth the bother.
forgive but don't forget
forgive but don't forget
SW-User
It all depends on circumstances. If you've hurt me or my family then its held forever. If it's just daft inconsequential things then move on who gives a fuck
TheConstantGardener · 56-60, M
It depends on what caused the grudge. If it happens once I'm always happy to give the benefit of the doubt, more than once is a problem.
I forgive people way too easily. 😑