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My partners adult daughter in her 30s is always trying to come between me an her Dad. We got engaged recently and she would look at my engagement ring

Its like a silent tug of war but she always acts so innocent to her Dad. When I try to explain her actions to my partner I'm met with aggression and acusations that I dont like his daughter. She has done many things in the past that are too many to mention. Her Dad is Italian and worships her. I feel the relationship is doomed as I dont attend family events anymore and she also turned my partners daughter in law against me but ill never find out what she said. Exhausted trying to figure out all this. Im not even sure if my partner genuinely loves me. I think he loves me when alls going well for him. Thoughts馃 can this survive? His ex wife I think is in it to. So much jealousy!!馃槱
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SW-User
If you can't push all that to the side and put it on ignore, you shouldn't be marrying him. Understand, you'll never win in this mental tug of war with his daughter. He will always side with her. Be smart. Don't allow her, or anyone else in the family, to become a bone of contention between you and your partner. Keep your mouth shut. When they say or do anything you find upsetting, smile and walk away.
CiaotuttiF
@SW-User Thats what my daughter said!
SW-User
@Ciaotutti Like me, your daughter can be objective. FYI, I married into a family like that. I ignored all the nasty remarks. My relationship was with him, not his family. I simply limited the time I spent with them whenever possible.
CiaotuttiF
@SW-User Did things work out ok for you?
SW-User
@Ciaotutti As far as my marriage, yes.
CiaotuttiF
@SW-User Great im glad that it worked. Maybe I can try that. X