Chatting with a stranger is all fun and games till they actually bought the ticket to see you.

Last year somewhere around August, I kinda invited a guy over to my place with his wife. He is 9000+ miles away from me and I didn't expect him to actually come😥. I have no problem with that but he's coming alone. Oh gosh, this isn't funny now 😐

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Dolimyte · 41-45, M

Coming without his wife says one of two things to me. Either he is cheating on her, or she's a complete fabrication. If you do meet him (I wouldn't) ask to talk to his wife on the phone. If I'm right, he'll make an excuse as to why you can't. At that point, you should leave.

Darkmare · 36-40, F

@Dolimyte since he has bought the ticket, he should just enjoy it here. But I'm definitely not allowing him here. Maybe I'd see him somewhere at a bar with my husband. If he's genuine, he'd understand. If not, that screams "Run!"

Dolimyte · 41-45, M

@Darkmare for sure in public, and taking your husband with you sounds good too. What is this guy expecting, or what does he think may happen?

Darkmare · 36-40, F

@Dolimyte hmm... I'm not sure. He seems like a good decent guy till he bought the tickets without asking me (since he wants to meet up).

Dolimyte · 41-45, M

@Darkmare that level of eagerness without getting consent for a visit is a big red flag to me.