@paulaphilips no not a self absorbed person

@SW-User lol

@SW-User I admit stuff like this HAS occurred to me.

@MikeSp Rules are posted, and generally this doesn't happen here. That is why I think it must have been the girlfriend.

@greenmountaingal I would remind the BF that the rules apply to all guests, and request that he speak to her. Given their limited life experience, they probably have no clue that their actions can affect someone not like them. Tell him that you almost had an accident, and that you need to avoid being put in that position again. Unless someone tells them, they are not going to learn.