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If someone you're paid to meet with each wk wants to meet more often, how do you explain the only reason you're saying no is because they're stressful

Like, the company would pay me to meet with her twice a week, so that's not an excuse. And I have openings in my schedule, so that's not an excuse either. She wants to meet twice a week and I don't want to bc she's super stressful to meet with, and I don't know how to say that without being hurtful.
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Sweet517 · 51-55, F
@MyTurn Then by all means ask. BTW , it sounds like this patient is either someone with a personality disorder or is on the ASD spectrum. I'm curious why she wants more intensive therapy. Just the fact that she came into a non private setting with a list of traits in therapists that she would or wouldn't see speaks volumes.
In my experience, part of my role as a therapist is to hold up A mirror to to certain patients and essentially say " this is how you're coming across to others and that's why they're treating you as they are." You have to be diplomatic and side with the patient's desire to be accepted and acceptable but in the long run you are helping her change and grow. This can actually be an opportunity to do some effective therapy. Good luck