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I Regret Falling In Love

... with someone who has a child. Come on, hate me, go ahead. People who have children are heartless when it comes to relationships, and take my advice: do not get involved with someone who is a parent. Simply because you will never be number one, you'll always come (in the best case scenario) second. No matter how much you love them, and maybe even how much you love their kid(s).
And that is something I would be willing to accept and understand, I was aware of being the "less important" one and I did respect that. But once someone completely runs you over (and reverses, and runs you over again) for the sake of their parenthood, they dare to be mad at you for being hurt and upset. That's the best for my son/daughter, they say, irritated and annoyed with you feeling like the world collapsed. The only feelings they value are the feelings of their kids, and a normal person wouldn't purposely take an adult's time and heart if they weren't interested an adult interaction, but a parent doesn't give a $h!t if you're going to end up fooled and hurt. A parent will lead you on as long as it pleases them and dump you like trash, when things like custody battle occupy them. It maked me sick. Someone who's a crappy person cannot and will not be a good parent to a human being.
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I've been in that relationship with an open mind, her kids coming first was what I did sign up for. I get it because I would think the same too if I was a parent. But the reason it didn't work because I was put not second, but last, there are commitment issues there and lack of emotional connection an intimacy. I had to forget who I was for a while. I left but we are working things out again but I am actually questioning does she really love me like I'm "the love of her life, or she's just scared of ending up alone" hey I'm asking myself that question too because I'm at the stage of my life where it's pretty much over, just feels like we are live in best friends who shared the same bed.
Elegy · 46-50
@AwakeningConfession9: You are nowhere near the end, push for someone that makes you happy.