Is being deaf as a young lady a crime?

I'm proudly deaf and have been deaf all my life, and one thing that amazes me till date is that most men thinks simply because I'm deaf then I would be so cheap enough to be taken advantage of. I had come across men whom are so shy to associate theirselves with me in public due to my deafness, it's all lust and not love. Would I ever find someone whom would accept and love me for who I'm and not because of their selfish interest