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QueanTeee · 26-30, F
@Justice4All my children’s grandparents are 800 miles away. The one grandparent they have up here doesn’t bother to get to know them. And you can’t really ask someone who’s 800 miles away to watch your grandkids for a few hours (which they would be more than willing to do) so we can go out alone.

Any hobbies? There must be so many people who feel the same way and don't know what to do about it or even have the courage or confidence to do anything about it.

Look online for coffee and vake mornings? Walks? Rambles? How old are the kids? Perhaps something you can take them to where you may be able to interact with other parents?

Good luck. X
Cassieeeee · 31-35, F
Why can't it cost any money? 🙄 Like can you sign up for a hobby? gym? maybe take a class just to get out and meet people? Maybe you can post in a fb group or something and ask if anyone wants to meet up for a coffee? Just be careful..

Why can't you join them so that you can all hang out? And also are you and your husband doing nice things together (outside of the house)?
QueanTeee · 26-30, F
@Cassieeeee we have nobody to watch our 2 toddlers and can’t afford a babysitter so one of us has to stay at the house. That being said, a hobby that costs little to no money would be ideal.
Convivial · 26-30, F
You have to live your own life, not be his shadow.,
PinkMoon · 26-30, F
Have you ever considered seeing a therapist? I used to be as isolated but through therapy I was able to open myself up to social interaction. Today I have 2 friends and acquaintances I made through my boyfriend. When I started therapy I was isolated, practically housebound. I had so much anxiety just having to something as simple as talking to cashiers. The progress didn't happen overnight but it helped.
being · 36-40, F
Free things you can do is: begin running or walking (setting a step counter app helps), public, local or church choir, checking on free cultural events online on Facebook perhaps (like live music, art exhibitions, book presentations)
Or just go out at a cafe twice a week with your journal and have a coffee. Things will blossom from there 😊
DHggmu · 31-35, M
How would you feel about asking your husband to invite some of his friends over for dinner with you both so you can get to know them? I know it’s probably not ideal but if you got along with them too it could open some doors maybe.
Dont worry. Most guys cant cheat even if they tried, most women still womt like them because men armt attractive like that. So Not as risky. Now, if it was the other way around & the women had a lot of friemds then thats where it is a risk because a woman can easily cheat.. Man not so much. So nothing to worry about. You should learn a sport or learn how to cook food is becoming more and more scarce
Unlearn · 41-45, M
You get what you give...
being · 36-40, F
@Unlearn I think in her case, she's giving too much. She'd better take a step back, so she'll find balance with her receiving end.
In theory of course we're all superhumans..in practice it's more challenging, changes need be subtle and cover many areas over the course of time..

 
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