So what are the reasons for our loneliness?

I am trying to figure mine out...i mean i can see how i want humane contact, i ask people out and after sometime I don't want them. I find them either depressive, shallow, gossiping...I struggle to be my true self around others. I am not perfect either. And I am not thinking i am any superior...or am I thinking that? I find it hard to connect. It shouldn't be this way, we are supposed to be sharing our lives ❤️ I, we, shouldn't be living them alone..

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YoMomma ·

When you feel disconnected from people you wish to be close to.. then you are lonely..

Maybe if you think ill of others’ behavior.. you should tell them so they could improve themselves .. instead of silently disapproving and withdrawing

being · 36-40, F

@YoMomma very much to the point. My avoidance-of-conflict strategy isn't helping anyone. I am not getting any friends and they never know what happened..

YoMomma ·

Judge em and ghost em eh?? You're a snob 😅 @being

being · 36-40, F

@YoMomma I haven't learned properly to discuss what's irritating me. I only do it with the ones being very very close, usually boyfriends and not just friends.. Failing to set my boundaries others are crossing them all over and i get exhausted and run. As you say, judge them and ghost them huh 🤦

YoMomma ·

Yeah.. me too 😅 but i don't feel lonely @being