So what are the reasons for our loneliness?

I am trying to figure mine out...i mean i can see how i want humane contact, i ask people out and after sometime I don't want them. I find them either depressive, shallow, gossiping...I struggle to be my true self around others. I am not perfect either. And I am not thinking i am any superior...or am I thinking that? I find it hard to connect. It shouldn't be this way, we are supposed to be sharing our lives ❤️ I, we, shouldn't be living them alone..

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SW-User

I feel like I am in a similar situation. I find myself somewhere in between people I cannot relate to and people I haven't come across yet.
Part of the reason I believe, for me, is that I am changing. My views are changing. I'm unable to express myself properly to be 'seen' or attract the right kind of people to me. So I find myself in a limbo.

being · 36-40, F

@SW-User it sounds like a similar situation..i'm at a changing point too.. We'll figure it out, but still loneliness will suck till then 😔