So what are the reasons for our loneliness?

I am trying to figure mine out...i mean i can see how i want humane contact, i ask people out and after sometime I don't want them. I find them either depressive, shallow, gossiping...I struggle to be my true self around others. I am not perfect either. And I am not thinking i am any superior...or am I thinking that? I find it hard to connect. It shouldn't be this way, we are supposed to be sharing our lives ❤️ I, we, shouldn't be living them alone..

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ABCDEF7 · M

Humans are in habit of living in couples and in groups from 30 million years. So we are wired to not live alone. It's very difficult to overcome that wiring as far as we are connected to our mind and emotions.

But as we connect more with our soul/consciousness we are not bound by our mind and emotions, and may prefer to live alone.

To find a right partner for you, Indian astrology suggests eight characteristics to match.

being · 36-40, F

@ABCDEF7 interesting point.. But i want to resolve my issues first, before jumping onto this idea out of defense, and not because of pure choice..

But as we connect more with our soul/consciousness we are not bound by our mind and emotions, and may prefer to live alone.

now i like that about Indian astrology:) eight 🤔

ABCDEF7 · M

@being The eight characteristics are like, Ego, Power equation, Sexual compatibility, temperament, health, love etc. And every characteristic has a weightage

being · 36-40, F

@ABCDEF7 thank you, that is so informative, i haven't heard of it. i know, i tend to pick incompatible people..but i think its just me being incompatible in general *sigh*

ABCDEF7 · M

@being It's not about one person being incompatible, it's about how how does you both are compatible with each other.