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BlueVeins · 22-25
Being misunderstood and constrained by social expectations is always way more isolating than just being alone.
SW-User
The only times I’ve felt truly lonely was when I felt like I couldn’t feel myself enjoying the moment like those around me, it always ends with me feeling zoned out and then they ask me if I’m bored or okay; idk maybe I enjoy my own company more or or their vibes don’t match mine, as the only group I truly enjoy is my school friends 🤷🏻♀️
FutureIdol · 31-35, M
Yes. Usually everyone else knows each other well and I sort of get left to the side. Eventually I wonder why I am there and how I would much rather go home.
Anonymartyr · M
It is a a matter of contrast. Being the only individual in a crowd of couples and groups is a very lonely experience.
Effloresce · 26-30, F
Yep, quite often. Mostly due to not feeling like I fit in with the people around me
ViciDraco · 36-40, M
@Effloresce In one of those areas where people's sensibilities do not align with your own? That can be both lonely and frustrating.
HannahSky · F
Not fitting in with the group is not a good feeling. I don't need to but in forced situations it's no fun.
Dancingxghost · 36-40, M
like watching couples and asking yourself why can't you connect with others?
ViciDraco · 36-40, M
@Dancingxghost In general. Being a single in a crowd of couples would definitely feel like a downer though.
Yes,
It’s very much about relatability. I prefer not to make small talk
It’s very much about relatability. I prefer not to make small talk
SW-User
Yes my marriage was the loneliest I've ever been
bijouxbroussard · F
Yes...occasionally even among my friends. I remember what it was like to be part of a young family and I miss it.
ViciDraco · 36-40, M
@bijouxbroussard A young family?
bijouxbroussard · F
@ViciDraco With young children.
ViciDraco · 36-40, M
@bijouxbroussard Ah, okay. Young children do seem to bond and unite people.