smthm · 51-55, M
boo!
MrPerditus1 · 61-69, M
I have been there for quite a few years. House/room bound. Friends are online gamers I can Skype with and the only people I interact with are at the VA Hospital or Offices. Can't drive and health issues keep me where I am.
I do hope things work out for the best for you.
I do hope things work out for the best for you.
carnivalofcrazy · F
@MrPerditus1 I do wish you could atleast drive. Thank you for your wishes.
MrPerditus1 · 61-69, M
@carnivalofcrazy Thank you, I do wish I could too, but after my head injury it was put to me, I could either drive, have a seizure and hurt others OR not drive and not hurt others. No real choice in the matter. But have lived with this for a long time. Just tired of it sometimes.
carnivalofcrazy · F
@MrPerditus1 I can imagine.
WeighedDown · 41-45, M
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SW-User
I have.
Made me stronger and self assured.
Guess I had no choice 🖤
Made me stronger and self assured.
Guess I had no choice 🖤

SW-User
Yep. And with a house full of people.
carnivalofcrazy · F
@SW-User been there too.
lubovont · 70-79, M
Yes I've felt that way and I hope better for you!!
carnivalofcrazy · F
@lubovont thank you
carnivalofcrazy · F
@carnivalofcrazy you're welcome
TinyViolins · 31-35, M
I've spent my entire life that way. It doesn't get better. You'll burn yourself out trying to do it all alone. I would work on that
carnivalofcrazy · F
@TinyViolins I am in therapy. Always been hard for me to make friends.
TinyViolins · 31-35, M
@carnivalofcrazy Same. I'm at a point now where I just can't bring myself to face that disappointment again. I got a dog, which makes a world of difference, and I'm just going to try to ride it out with her for the foreseeable future
There are a lot of online resources though that may help. I've heard people recommend Meetup and Bumble as possible solutions for introverts. I haven't had success with it, but I didn't put enough faith to see it through. There are some people that would swear by it
There are a lot of online resources though that may help. I've heard people recommend Meetup and Bumble as possible solutions for introverts. I haven't had success with it, but I didn't put enough faith to see it through. There are some people that would swear by it
drymer · 56-60, M
Wow. Can't you move back to where you have friends & family...?
carnivalofcrazy · F
@drymer no, that 1400 miles away. He controls the money. I am unable to work.
drymer · 56-60, M
carnivalofcrazy · F
@drymer exactly...
Barebum61 · 61-69, M
You need a new hubby
carnivalofcrazy · F
@Barebum61 I am old. Ha4d for older girls. Lol and to be honest I don't know if I can ever teut again. He was my first date .lol
Barebum61 · 61-69, M
@carnivalofcrazy Never give up hope ,there is always sometimes out there
AmbivalentFriability · 26-30
Yes.
Ambroseguy80 · 56-60, M
Sorry to hear this. Must be awful!
carnivalofcrazy · F
@Ambroseguy80 It is. I read or busy myself with stuff around the place.
Ambroseguy80 · 56-60, M
@carnivalofcrazy or practice
PhoenixPhail · M
You sound like ME. I live alone and don't leave the house unless I have to.
That really sucks about your husband. So sorry.
Feel free to message me. 🤗
That really sucks about your husband. So sorry.
Feel free to message me. 🤗
thepreposterouspanda · 36-40, M
That sucks so bad. :( I battle loneliness a lot, but it comes with the territory of being disabled. :)
carnivalofcrazy · F
@thepreposterouspanda I have medical issues ,but they dont have me in wheelchair. I am sorry you're lonely too.😔
thepreposterouspanda · 36-40, M
@carnivalofcrazy I'm not having to use a wheelchair anymore, but I need a cane whenever I go out. It's all good though! :)
I'm sorry you have to deal with medical stuff too. :( It's such a hard thing to have to battle, because most people just don't understand.
I'm sorry you have to deal with medical stuff too. :( It's such a hard thing to have to battle, because most people just don't understand.