It's really gross that I'm very shy but that I've learned to just be sexual with men to get attention

I'm the opposite. I'm hella shy but was taught that sex was shameful and dirty, so I avoided it til I was 19.
I still struggle with completely letting myself be sexual, but I'm way more comfortable with it now than when I was young.

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First stop dissing yourself.

Secondly what is good and bad for you? Move forward with the good not the bad. Whatever has happened in the past is gone its only value of to inform your future.

Take care

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That side of you is nothing to be ashamed of and you have much more to offer. Your creativity and plant care are just as awesome as your boobs.

Unfortunately that gets the wrong type of man's attention so if you want a better man you will have to learn better acquisition habits 😳

You don't have to be. You're cool as you are, it can attract the wrong kind of attention also. If you start out like that most of the time people will treat you different.

People will treat us how we tell them we want to be treated. You gotta set the standard. I'd rather have less attention in general but have it be quality attention and that comes through a bond than superfluous attention.

you have my attention without it though :)

Everyone has their own way of gettin' stuff done.... It's all good. No judgements...😊😉

You can be shy and sexual too.
Nothing wrong with that.

You aren’t disgusting but I understand how you feel.

Like they won’t have any interest in you besides your sexuality and how you can make them feel.