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What were your life remembering moments? 🤔

On the news to day they mentioned a certain "life changing" moment happened today.

While I do remember what happened, I really couldn't say it a was life changing moment for me. It has very little effect on me. Not to say that it had no importance at all to some, yet I doubt it was a life changing moment for most. And the further away the less of the importance.

Yet I must admit there were many real life changing moments for most. These are a few of the world changing moments that really did have effect on me...

1. The assassination of JFK November 22, 1963. At home glued to the TV.

2. The Watts riots. August 11, 1965. There's a bit of history revision in that date. Because I remember rioting the whole time between 1963 to 1968. I lived less than 25 miles away from Watts then. And why it was life changing.

3. The launch and successful man landing on the moon in 1969. Glued to the TV for days.

4. The Nixon trial begins Jan 1 1973, until his resignation on August 8th 1974. Lots of TV watching. Lots of arguments, just about everywhere. Family included, very life changing.

5. Death of Elvis Presley on August 16, 1977. Was walking to a highschool football game I was to take pictures on. Was listening to a little transistor radio while walking. The life change there was my first sense of mortality. Not because of whose it was. Yet it was the first sense of my own mortality. I kind of believe that a good portion of my classmates as well had that sense of mortality. Presley really wasn't popular in 1977.

6. Launch of the space shuttle on April 12th 1981. During this time I was in the Air force. You could not, not watch it anywhere on base.

7. Regan's take down this wall speach on June 12, 1987. This was life changing because there was some possibilities for family in Czechoslovakia to be contacted. Turned out they already passed away. And Dad passed away in 1990.

8. The 90s where life changing because of the internet. I was apart of that world changing events.

9. 9-11-2001. I was talking care of mom. The first plane had just crashed into the twin towers. Mom said what does it matter. Yet her world didn't expand beyond her own home. She passed away shortly there after.😞

10. Death of Osama Bin Laden in May 2, 2011.
The death itself again wasn't the life changing moment. Yet it was the beginning of all the suspicions everywhere. As if it was a international signal, which it was. Please remember it was almost 10 years between cause and effect. It was a message of a different sort than 911. I was watching intently in my secluded mountain property thinking of all the consequences. One of them was being forced to pull back from the whole area and glad of it.

11. Russia invaded Crimea on 20 February 2014. This was the start of the current war there. Not at a later time. Life changing event? War, economic changes. Loss of life. Terrible suffering,

And unnotable? Possible loss of unknown relatives.

So what were your life changing moments?

I sure hope it wasn't because of celebrities. 😂
RubySoo · 56-60, F Best Comment
Personal events, aside, the news/ world events that have had an impact on my life include:

The Toxteth riots in Liverpool in 1981. I was 14 My Aunt lived in Toxteth and Id visited her there as a kid. We caught a taxi to the coach station at the top of her road, and when i saw the news the following day,the shop we had stood outside had be totally wrecked in the riots. Id always felt very happy visiting Liverpool.....that ended that day.

The Dunblane school shooting in 1996. I never believed something like that could happen in a British school, let a lone a small village primary school. My son was just 2 at the time, and it tottally terrified me that could happen.

9/11...coz again, it was just unbelieveable we watched it unfold on the tv. My daughter was 7 months old. I remember holding her tight in my arms and weeping for all the lives lost and thinking what a terrible world my kids were growing up in.
DeWayfarer · 61-69, M
@RubySoo very good to hear of other life changing events and their results on others lives. This was the reason for this post!

Fairydust · F
Losing my dad when I was 8.


Losing my favourite person, my grandma at 18.

Giving birth to my children. 3

When princess Diana died. (25 years today)

9/11

Getting married.

The day I ended my marriage.

Losing my cousin.

Finding out the truth.

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GeniUs · 56-60, M
The Gulf War, at the time we did our bit and it wasn't for us to decide the right and wrongs of it all. After the war was over I read about why the Iraqis had invaded Kuwait; the Kuwaitis had tapped an oil well which extended under Iraq and refused to compensate them for it. War is never black and white.
DeWayfarer · 61-69, M
@GeniUs you're correct not everything is black & white or even multiple shades of grey.

There was a whole list of reasons for that war, not to forget Osama bin laden himself.
GeniUs · 56-60, M
@DeWayfarer but ObL wasn't killed during either Gulf War so apart from deposing him (regime change) it wasn't specifically about that. To ensure that oil to the rest of the world (US) was kept at a manageable level and price yes I could agree. None of the reasons for either Gulf War stand up particularly well under scrutiny.
DeWayfarer · 61-69, M
@GeniUs I still believe far more was going on than most are willing to admit. These are Arabs. Deceit is an art form.
BananaBrown · 41-45, F
I remember the last half of your list, but I wasn’t around for the first half. They’re definitely some life changing events though, I’m sure.
I suppose mine would be:
Leaving home and moving overseas
Getting married
Giving birth to my two beautiful sons
Losing a parent
The end of my marriage
Havesomefun2 · 56-60, M
My dad dying I watched him slowly pass away 8 years ago still in my mind
Havesomefun2 · 56-60, M
@DeWayfarer ok love
DeWayfarer · 61-69, M
@Havesomefun2 I know where you are coming by the way. Both my sister in-law and father passed away of cancer. And I saw both waste away for a long time. My father I took care of myself. There literally was no one else but me. I'm his only child and only known relative.
Havesomefun2 · 56-60, M
@DeWayfarer sorry don’t want to to a downer ♥️
Pfuzylogic · M
I totally agree with 3 and 4 of your list.
During the 70s , the Republicans were key in keeping the integrity of our politics.
I hope this generation can witness the same integrity.
On your number 7 I really despised Reagan. While I liked the increase of pay in the Navy; Gorbachev had more to do with the taking down of the wall more than Ronnie ever could take credit for.
Reagan hurt a lot of people intentionally and I hated his racist politics.
DeWayfarer · 61-69, M
@Pfuzylogic I agree with you on most of number 7. Yet world wide the speech had an effect. I do agree it was mostly Gorbachev. Yet the whole thing was obviously orchestrated. Regan never would have gave that speech otherwise. He was at least a fair, if not great, actor.
Pfuzylogic · M
@DeWayfarer
He did save Nancy from the black list derived by the McCarthy dirge.
He did skewer Unions and the middle class. He knew a lot about Unions as President of the Actors Guild. He definitely backstabbed everything that stood for. I remember him making “Liberal” a curse word and calling out Black welfare mothers for our huge national deficit of $100 billion. When he left it was $2 trillion dollars and he tried for 3 trillion with the SDI project.
He withheld needed attention on HIV and didn’t care that a lot of gay men were dying. I could go on about my contempt and examples of his incompetence but I will limit that. I agree with everything else you have down.
DeWayfarer · 61-69, M
@Pfuzylogic you have no idea just how my father cursed him. Believe me, you're being extremely nice to Ronald Reagan. 😂
uncalled4 · 56-60, M
Quite a few, though I won't mention all of them.

The birth of my brother in 1971.

The passing of Jim Croce, just as he was reaching the heights of his fame in 1973. I was too young to really understand what "dead" was.

The passing of my pet kitten, summer 1979. He lost his life when our motorized garage door came down on him. That was my first experience with death, as well as what I now recognize as depression.

The murder of John Lennon, 12/8/1980. This singular event changed the way I look at life forever.

My first ever studio recording session in March 1981. Huge game changer. Shaped my life in a big way.

The death of my grandmother, May 1984. First death of a close relative.

Graduating high school in 1985. It was better than graduating college, for me.

9/11, about which I have mentioned many times, having been in NYC when it happened.

The passing of my father in 2019.
Lilnonames · F
90s was life changing i was born 👍

 
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