I Believe Life Is a Life Long Lesson

@Afc71 who could just take their silver spoon life so effing for GRANTED though? You know he got the job because well it was kinda inevitable and blah blah blah....constant self distancing and self duplicity.

Who could end up like that??????

And they usually don't even know how to talk with anyone or clean up their ROOMs!!!

Personally I think men like this are completely broken by something that happened to them early in life and they flee to the sports like a plaster cast....or hip replacement.

@Stilltryinghard possibly, i don't think I'm qualified to say. I just try and bring my kids up right by giving them responsibility. Hopefully it will work out ok!!

@Afc71 This guy never married or had children. We don't want each other. I also have no kids or another home

Its a kind of hell the way it turned out.

But this SW is a playground at best.

@Stilltryinghard sorry to hear this. I guess you've had frank conversations about it?

@Afc71 He is unable to talk with me about anything. He is pathologically terrified of reality and real other people. He cannot complete a sentence. His logic is bizarre. He stares at the wall when I am trying to talk with him.

He really doesn't live in this universe with the rest of us. When younger he read some science fiction and not much else. His church knows he is a lost one and exploits him for free teaching work and then take five thousand a year from him and yet his pastor almost attacked me physically when I asked him to provide some home-style rag and bone counseling for this nightmare situation.

Maybe people love to know others are suffering instead of them. Is that it?

Some people are so hurt they ONLY know how to cause suffering in others because they themselves don't feel it anymore.

Including that ******* priest.

This guy just stood there watching while HIS priest almost physically attacked me.
Yup.

Maybe a homeless camp WOULD be better.

@Stilltryinghard wow, this sounds really grim. Maybe a charity thst help you get moved out and set up elsewhere? Doesn't sound healthy to be around

@Afc71 No charity exist to do that. I also have no money. These days the only "charity" is a thousand dollar bill u forgot you had.

He is pathologically unhealthy, spiritually and mentally.

And nobody cares, even my OWN therapist that I hired SPECIFICALLY to help both of us.

Maybe a homeless camp is my next move.

@Stilltryinghard well, things may be different than here in the UK, but maybe it is better than what u have at the moment

@Afc71 You know I lost an SW friend in a very nasty way because she is in the UK shaking a finger at me about I am the cause of my own misery and I had better know I CHOSE this situation...to supposedly get liberated from it.

Really.

Then I apologized and she is still snubbing me.

SW friends. Yup.

Homeless camps too.

@Stilltryinghard well, we're not all like that in the UK, but people on SW are no more to ne trusted than any other stranger that you chat to on any other social network. I am sorry u experienced this response though.