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Sigh I don’t know what to say?!

Dude i dont know what to do!..the guy I’m dating and I will be having a great time and then suddenly he’ll just start talking about my stomach or like I’ll sneak up behind him and he’ll reach around and Pat my stomach and be like “I feel your stomach”— I’ll tap his face and say “stop being so rude” or I’ll just plainly say “stop it” but he keeps doing it and I don’t understand why he can’t let it go. It makes me feel bad and it truly does ruin a good time 😕 but like he just won’t stop I don’t get it!… I know I don’t have abs anymore but I’m working on it. It’s not like it happens in a day! It’s not like I’m over weight! I’m just not “tight” as I used to be.
MissNoahLenFoxx
31-35, F
13 replies 119 views Jul 23, 2022
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JHNTHN · 36-40, M
From what I've learned here, my first thought is a belly fetish. When told to stop, that should be the end of it. Have a talk with him about it. Find out what the deal is.
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LadyGrace · 70-79
He is obviously not respectful of you. I don't know what his deal is but I would let him know after so many times of him doing this, that you have asked him numerous times not to do that but he still continues, so if he can't treat you the way you deserve, this is where it ends.
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SW-User
Sit him down respectfully and tell him that you don't need him to be that way to get motivated to get back in shape. Let him know you're working on it and would really help if he encouraged you rather than demoralize you over it.
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SomeMichGuy · M
@SW-User I don't think he's trying to motivate her...I think he might well have a fetish...
+ 0 · Reply · Translate · Jul 28, 2022
RebelFox · 36-40, F
Ew I would not tolerate that shit. I have a little tummy and I’ve been with lots of guys who didn’t care at all.
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MrAboo · 36-40, M
Hell just keep saying it. Time to find someone else.
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Pretzel · 61-69, M
possible actions
1) when he hugs you from behind - reach behind and get a handful of crotch and ask sweetly "honey is something wrong?" "are you okay down there"

2) if you're having sex ask "is it in"?
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Chickie · F
@Pretzel 😂🤣 lmao!
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Ontheroad · M
Yeah, he is a complete a$$. I'd dump him quick. He obviously doesn't care about hurting you and if that is true, it's not going to get better.
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DrSunnyTheSkeptic · 26-30, M
I could be wrong, but I think he's just teasing you and this is a bigger deal for you than it is for him.
+ 1 · Reply · Translate · Jul 24, 2022
MrAverage1965 · 61-69, M
It seems like he has no respect for the woman you are
Maybe it's time to mention his tiny 🍆.
+ 1 · Reply · Translate · Jul 28, 2022
SW-User
Tell him straight that you’re not comfortable with it and mean it
+ 3 · Reply · Translate · Jul 23, 2022
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