Jester1987 · 36-40, M
An argument only arises if both parties aren't willing to ask "the why" behind their actions and reasons of disagreement. Unable to see reason behind an action. That makes it very uncomfortable to live with a person because we may hold assumptions without asking. Most reasons are freedom, work, finances, understanding and respect related than love. Because love always allow, other doesn't as much. They have their own way to deal with stuff.
A relationship isn't a single sided effort, but a duo dynamic and compromises. Remember compromises only happens because not both or only one side could always win their requirements.
Also that's the trade off of being in relationship, it will take your peace away.
That's why I have been single myself to keep the peace and find the right person. But to be with a person you invest time and energy without a garantee if it would last as life comes with challenges if you aren't focused towards a better secure future.
At least that's how I see things. Each their own. Isn't it?
A relationship isn't a single sided effort, but a duo dynamic and compromises. Remember compromises only happens because not both or only one side could always win their requirements.
Also that's the trade off of being in relationship, it will take your peace away.
That's why I have been single myself to keep the peace and find the right person. But to be with a person you invest time and energy without a garantee if it would last as life comes with challenges if you aren't focused towards a better secure future.
At least that's how I see things. Each their own. Isn't it?
Caleidoscope · F
@Jester1987 💯 true,its important to first be at peace within themselves to attract a similar partner
Caleidoscope · F
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@Caleidoscope yes, had no idea how miserable he was making me.
toobookoo · 36-40, M
Honestly, i broke up a long term relationship not too long ago whom i was about to engage to until i found out something.
it fucking hurts as fuck, yes. but i think its all a learning experience to find something more important.
it may never be immediate, but time will tell.
i may just be optimistic, but i guess what im really trying to say is finding and to love oneself is whats important first before finding that person that truly fills your needs.
i hope that makes sense? what can i say... a guy cant really make sense when putting sensitive things in writing
it fucking hurts as fuck, yes. but i think its all a learning experience to find something more important.
it may never be immediate, but time will tell.
i may just be optimistic, but i guess what im really trying to say is finding and to love oneself is whats important first before finding that person that truly fills your needs.
i hope that makes sense? what can i say... a guy cant really make sense when putting sensitive things in writing
Abraxas · 26-30, M
I hope all is well with you :/
Justafantasy · M
CrazyMusicLover · 31-35
Caleidoscope · F
@CrazyMusicLoverI think its about finding someone where the love is effortless .If there’s a lot of effort and doubts ,its far better to be single and happy
CrazyMusicLover · 31-35
@Caleidoscope I think love is all that it is about. I can't imagine how anybody could tolerate certain behaviours unless they loved the person.
Love or materialistic calculation where they know they wouldn't have certain things otherwise and it's worth for them to deal with the person's BS.
Love or materialistic calculation where they know they wouldn't have certain things otherwise and it's worth for them to deal with the person's BS.