do you ever compare yourself to other guys

and think or worry you don't look as good as them? i do often, i get told by my mum and dad not too, but i keep comparing myself to especially younger guys in their 20s and 30s...and think i don't look as good as them, they look better and are better dressed etc....and i feel inferior.

i am now in my mid 40s.

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robingoodfellow · M

Rejoice in what makes you different, not in trying to be the other guy.
You'll attract the kind of woman you like if you stand out as special. But you need to project confidence in who you are. 👍

Jungleman · M

@robingoodfellow thanks but i'm not ''different'' i'm just an ordinary nobody, i don't stand out at all.

robingoodfellow · M

@Jungleman all of us are different in some way. If we weren't then we wouldn't be individuals. All I'm saying is instead of comparing yourself to other guys, find what's unique in yourself.
And I wish you luck.

Jungleman · M

@robingoodfellow thanks and you too.

Isthisit · F

I do that all the time. You need to find what you like most about yourself and focus on that.

Saintweezer · 36-40, M

All the time

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