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I hate liars

I’ve been lied to and have had secrets kept from me my whole life. Even by my parents. And I have extreme trust issues now because of it. Grew up in a household with drug and alcohol abuse. It was kept a secret. Lied about. Three years ago my stepdad almost died from alcoholism. He was lying and keeping it a secret. Saying he wasn’t drinking. But when his organs started failing, and he had to go to the hospital, it told the truth. In my late 20s my mom got cancer. My parents lied to me about it until she was terminally ill and getting chemo. My parents thought that they needed to hide it from me out of protection because they didn’t want to upset me or hurt me. But they didn’t realize that lying to me and keeping it a secret from me hurt worse than the truth. Now I am in a relationship with someone who lies to me and keep secrets from me. Who has drug addiction issues and hides them from me. Deletes text messages. Send secret messages to other women. I have no faith left in people. Everyone I’ve ever known has lied to me. I don’t trust anyone anymore
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SW-User
@SW-User if you ever wanna chat and be friends, my DM‘s are open 💗
SW-User
@SW-User Thank you and you can feel free to DM me as well.
S33K3R · 36-40, F
I'm kind of like you in that everyone abandons me. I think it's my behavior and my bad people and thought picking skills.

I'm cleaning house in my life, basically lost all but one friend in the state I live in. My heart's broken and I'm getting crazy anxiety... but I'm going to start a business and try to meet better people. Guess I'm on my own yet again.

Maybe look at your skills in the people and thought picking department... I have thoughts that glue me to toxic people instead of getting me out of their lives. Like I tried to fix them... It was wrong, I know.

All we can do is learn from our own falls, even if someone else contributed we can only watch ourselves to be better skilled at the obstacle course were all running.

I wish you the best ❤️ chat anytime.
SW-User
I’m sorry, you don’t deserve that.
SW-User
@SW-User thank you. No one deserves it. No one deserves to be lied to. But unfortunately, it’s just a society norm nowadays. Everyone lies to each other. Spouses lie to each other. Family lies to each other. The government and the media lies to us. Everyone is just a big fat. Liar nowadays.
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@SW-User

I feel your pain, not everyone is that dishonest but you are right it’s everywhere.
rrraksamam · 31-35, M
Are you still with him?
SW-User
@rrraksamam it’s complicated 😞
rrraksamam · 31-35, M
@SW-User Yes
Mattypp · 56-60, M
I try not lie best tell truth
SW-User
@Mattypp I wish more people felt like this
I also come from an immediate family of liars, my Dad despised it himself, but after he died when I was ten, it only got worse. My mother is now 77 and I caught her in another one yesterday, she is very bad at gaslighting.

I am so very sorry for what they are putting you through, I think your best course of action is to distance yourself, while keeping yourself prepared for any and all last minute bad news.
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@NativePortlander1970 thank you for your kind words and suggestions I appreciate it. I’m sorry for what you have going through as well. Hugs
@SW-User You're so very welcome :) 🤗

 
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