Asking
Only logged in members can reply and interact with the post.
Join SimilarWorlds for FREE »

Is it bad to not be able to be alone?

I don't feel like doing things alone. I only feel like doing things in a group.
Fishy · 36-40, F
Depends what you mean by "doing things"

I mean, if it's things like going out for lunch, seeing a movie, etc...
then nah, that's just a preference. It just means you enjoy company and are possible extroverted
(personally, I'm usually the opposite lol)


But if it's other things like taking care of your daily needs, then maybe that's something you need to look into 😶
sahi81 · 22-25, F
@Fishy i did neglected taking care of myself for a while out of depression because i was not able to find a partner ( good one). I been in abusive friendships, dating and situationships with men all my past. I never been able to have a committed partner.
sahi81 · 22-25, F
@Fishy generally i don't mind living alone and taking care of myself, It's the activities like studying or therapy... i want to do in groups
Fishy · 36-40, F
@sahi81 Ouch, depression can be rough :c
Nanori · F
You're codependent
sahi81 · 22-25, F
@Nanori i too think so ! I have been coming across abusive men only till now...
Unlearn · 41-45, M
Yeah, if one cannot be alone, they are at the mercy of others and often tend to put them on a pedestal
sahi81 · 22-25, F
@Unlearn but i heard loniliness is bad
Unlearn · 41-45, M
@sahi81 There is loneliness and then there is solitude.
probably. it's fairly difficult not to end up alone for lengths of time.
deadgerbil · 26-30, M
Yeah, as a grown adult you should be able to be fine by yourself
FreestyleArt · 31-35, M
I don't like doing things alone too. That's when Alcohol comes to play.
sahi81 · 22-25, F
@FreestyleArt not good for ur health....
FreestyleArt · 31-35, M
@sahi81 oh well.

 
Post Comment